Embargoed

Some things are held back until the right moment, and some are never released. Your chats belong in the second group.

What we hold

• Account details: email address, a hashed password, first name, birth date and gender, plus whatever you write in your pigeonhole.
• The chats themselves, with her notes about you, which are what let her remember.
• One cookie for your session and another that shows you cleared the age gate.
• Records of payments: the amount and the transfer reference. Cards never reach us, because we accept none.
• Standard server logs, retained briefly for security.

What it is for

We use it to run the chat, apply the rules and keep the lights on. Your messages are handled by an AI model, which we host or which a bound provider runs for us, and automated checks scan them for safety. Your chats are not for sale, and no advertiser ever sees one.

Counting readers

A bare analytics counter records how many readers arrived and where they came from. It never looks inside a chat.

Your controls

A chat's menu lets you correct her notes about you, take a copy of the file or strike it entirely. To erase your account together with all it holds, write from the registered address to the footer's mailbox. If your local law grants you more rights, tell us which and we will honour them.